Sunday, April 13, 2008

RamblingSimon Rants About: Relationships

Ok, so it's not truly about 'relationships'. I'm not that much of an angsty, cold-hearted bastard to be claiming that relationships are stupid/shallow/designed to fill the needs of the individual/unnecessary...

Alight, I am enough of a bastard to claim that, but my true rant isn't about that. I'm really here to discuss an important matter that most girls need to learn: GET OVER YOUR GODDAMN EX-BOYFRIENDS!!!

In the last week, I've ran into not one, not two, but THREE girls who got dumped. Terribly sorry for them; being dumped does suck. However, these girls have been utterly depressed since their breakups. Now, at this point, you must be thinking, "RamblingSimon, you villainous twit! Are you saying these poor girls shouldn't be down-in-the-dumps from being dumped?!"

My response to it is that typically, these girls should have been allowed by me to be mopey and whiny and then find a shoulder for emotional support, but none of these three deserve the opportunity.

Focusing on two of the people, my managers at where I work, they got into big fights with their boyfriends and then the boyfriend split ON THE SAME WEEKEND! It's quite a tear-jerker, since they have been dating them for years. The part that boggles my mind is that BOTH OF THESE GIRLS bitched constantly about their boyfriends' douchebaggery for as long as I've worked with the two, and now the two girls can't sleep or eat. I've met one of the girls' boyfriend. He's a societal reject with pink hair, black clothes, no job, and bums money off my manager to support his drug habits. He ended up calling her one night and saying that he was with some other woman in their house. Her first reaction was that she wanted to kill.

Good instinct to have. Unfortunately, all of her anger was, for some reason, set upon the girl that was "coming to their house and stealing her man". How the fuck can someone's mind be warped enough to not feel angry at the guy who's used and abused you for years and tossed you aside for some piece of ass with three children?! Are both of these women just so psychologically fucked up that they need a complete asshole to run and dictate their lives?

Really, move on with your lives. It didn't work out. I know you think the guy is a sweetheart somewhere deep down, but if all of your friends are telling you that the guy is a no good loser, I'm not typically fond of masses of people trying to sway my opinion, but this might be one of those times that you should listen since your brain has turned to creamed corn.

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